Relationships!

My attention was drawn to one thought this morning...
Relationships...
Im not sure why, but i was just thinking about the effort and time... the feelings, and passion, all of the things that must be contributed to carry out a healthy relaionship...

Friends:
Having a relationship with the people around you in a non "romantic" way...
I think having friends is a wonderful thing.... but even the smallest kind of relationship takes effort... having friends needs to be treated like a privlage...
To recieve your privlage, you have to act kindly tward it, treat it with respect... Friends need to be loved, and charished... cared for in the best way you can. You must do your best to meet your friends needs, and make sure to consider their feelings. You need to have passion and encourage their dreams and goals. You need to support them in their times of need, and rejoice with them when they succede. Friendship isnt all work thoe... Its quite rewarding... When you have a good, true, friend, all of the things that you pour out, will be returned to you...
That feeling motivates

Having friendship is like practice...
Practice for something more serious
Something that will come later in life

My understanding of a serious relationship...
A serious relation ship does take effort... much effort, much more than friendship. Not only do you have to support your partner, you have to have major trust in your partner because what ever choice they make may efect you. Good or bad... You have to have major support in you partner. People rely in eachother majorly. They bond, and need to have that succure feeling that you are behind them evry step of the way. A serious relationship takes so much, much more than i have writen (im a little ADD at the moment) but i can only imagine the wonderful feeling of joy and love that can come from a healthy working serious relationship...

And i may not want to wait to find someone... but i have to, because if you jump in too soon, things will go wrong... and you may brush them aside but in the end, all thoes little things will rize...
And that will be your un doing...

So I urge you, please, you may want to feel loved, by a boy friend or a girl friend... what ever you chose to call it... but wait... think about yourself for a moment. Analize your feelings and thoughts. Ask yourself "Will this be good for me now? Will this be good for the other person in the relationship? Am i redy, to commit, and not only be consirned with myself now?"
Really think about it.
And one day, when you are reay, your prince of princess will come
And you will be rewarded
With a diffrent
Most rewarding
Love